By Cara Knox Gutzmer
It’s that time of year again. The time when you receive notification that it’s time to pick out a 10-15 minute slot of time to talk to your child’s teacher. What can you do to make the most of that time?
Here are some helpful tips, from the perspective of a parent and educator:
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Arrive on time or early. Yes, you may wait, but you may also get in right away. Teachers’ conference nights are usually packed solid, so arriving on time will make the whole night run more smoothly.
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Assume positive intentions. Teachers work tirelessly everyday to make sure that they meet the needs of all of their students. Even if your child is struggling, assume that your child’s teacher genuinely wants your child to be successful.
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Ask questions. If something is unclear, ask about it. Only you know what you do and do not understand.
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Ask how you and the teacher can work together to support your child.
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Ask about school resources — are there digital subscriptions, before or after school help, or other things that are available for your child?
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Tell your child’s teacher about something that your child really enjoys about school.
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Find out the best way to maintain communication throughout the year.
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Watch the time. See No. 1. If you have serious concerns, schedule a time to meet for a longer period of time.
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Advocate for your child. If you have a concern you don’t think your child’s teacher addresses, feel free to schedule an appointment with a school’s administrator, counselor, etc.
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If you think your child’s teacher is doing a great job, tell them and let their boss know. Teaching is a tough job, and any positive feedback is cherished.
Cara Knox Gutzmer came to the University of Illinois 20 years ago and never left. She taught middle school for 15 years before going to work at the College of Education at the University of Illinois. When not working or going to school, you can find her soaking up time with her husband, daughter, 7, and son, 5.